生命的礼物: November 2006

生命的礼物

世间最容易的事是坚持 最难的事也是坚持 说它容易,是因为只要愿意做就能做到 说它难,是因为真正能够做到的终是少数 成功在于坚持,这是一个并不神秘的秘诀

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Web design

今天从老师的口中得到了
一个可喜可悲的消息

有一个网页制作比赛即将要举办
我没有做过网页已经有一段时间

一鼓作气
二话不说
三思而行
四个坚持
五位组员
六个脑袋
七彩设计
八仙过海
九霄云外
十全十美
奖金拿定

回想

这个星期的考试简直是安排得想人家种大蔴,差点连上厕所的时间都没有。今天好不容易才熬过了历史跟中问的,明天又有英文跟生物要考了。这样的情况只能说声~~~无奈!唯有尽力去考好啦,这次成绩可能不太好,也许平均分都上不了80了。这谁都不能怪,只能怪自己懒了,开始放松了。但这次的失败并不代表以后也一样,我要在下一次周考加倍努力来补回前面的懒惰。

Saturday, November 25, 2006

Friday

今天又是星期五了,时间过得真快。我又老样子的来到了教会,跟大家一起的传契。即使我什么宗教都不信,我也去跟大家玩玩聊聊。由于昨天是感恩节,今天平时幽默风趣的大家都说不少感性的事情。大家都回想起了,从暑期补习班开始到现在,短短的几个月,大家由不认识到现在的了解,是一种非常难得的缘分。

朋友就是这样,由缘分这根细小的线,把两个不认识的人在不竟意的时候,做了那一点点的牵引。如果不在这牵引下做去相当的关心和问候,就会辜负了这份缘分。在人的生活中,真正的知心朋友不多。假如不去珍惜的话,生活也就会失去了不少的色彩。人生出来不来就是一张白纸,白纸上的色彩是要通过自己的双手添加上去的。纸上的每一笔颜色,都是自己的选择、自己用力画上去的,每一笔的意义都是不一样的。黑色,被普遍的认为的不好的,认为是讨厌的。但是,在色彩上如果没有了黑色,那彩色会不会显的那么的鲜艳夺目,那么的惹人喜欢吗。 不要只盯住那黑色,要大面积的看看那精彩的。或许在你盯住的黑色下面,曾经有过五彩缤纷的比划,只是人家在那不小心的一瞬间,挥下了那么不可抹刷的一笔。人家在那些黑色的旁边,添加了不少的彩色,使到整幅画变的那么的好看。也许没有那样的黑色,他也不会去添加、搭配更多明亮的色彩。

传契完了之后,我继续留在那里玩吉他。我感觉到我好像退步了,因为我弹的时候有点走音了。我跟我一个朋友在那里合奏,我玩吉他,她玩贝兹。由于我们都没有一起合奏过,所以有点辛苦。不过慢慢地还合得来。玩了一个小时左右就走了。后来我跟我的那个朋友到街上走了走,就这样一个星期又过去了

Friday, November 24, 2006

The Second Thanksgiving

昨天是一年一度的感恩节,也是我来美国后过的第二个感恩节。 这次跟上次有很大的不一样,上次是在我叔叔那里吃火鸡,而这次呢早上有活动晚上又吃火锅。

今天天气并不是很好,一整天都在下雨。我跟教会的成员一起去新泽西看那个冰上迪士尼。我们在早上大概九点半就在教会里等了,十点左右就开车出发。我们有三十来人参加了这次活动,大概有九辆车去。出发的时候还在下着雨,使到兴奋的心情都变得有那么一点点的灰沉。一路上,在我坐的那辆车里,播放着侧田的专缉。我一边听着音乐,一边看着窗外。看着那灰灰的天空,看着那飘零的雨点。看着看着,在脑海里忽然浮起了一段回忆。想起了以前在中国读高中的时候,每逢下大雨我们都会在足球场上,在笑声、呼喊声和那雨水的欢呼声中,与我们的爱友--足球一起度过。想着想着,自自然然的哼起了一首广东歌《下雨天》,“下雨天 总挂念从前,球场上那可爱片段,突然又已一年,期望再回面旧朋友.......”。

注意着那缓缓地从玻璃上下滑的雨滴。它们不是一落就下地的。由大地上的水蒸发到大气中,再同过外界作用,一点点的积累,积累到一定程度的时候就会从天上落下。一小点一小点的落到车门的玻璃上,凝聚在一起,越变就越大,最后就落下了。就像人一样,那落地的水珠就是人的成果、成就。每一个都要经过无数外界因素的影响,而且还要一点一滴的积累,最后才能得到那不完美的成果。一滴水在落下的过程中,由于挥发了一部分,甚至整滴都给化掉。即使它们化掉了,但它们还是回到了大气当中,为下一次的凝聚做准备。在现实中,有很多人都不是那样的。他们看到自己付出了这么多,到后来得到的却是那么一丁点的回报。他们就以后都不去做了,不会再努力了,就这样放弃了。我从书上看过这么一句话“钱,是很喜欢那些不想着赚钱去赚钱的人的。” 我们很像雨,又一点都不像。在道理上我们与雨点是非常相似的,唯一不像的就是。它们是被动的,而我们却是主动的。它们只有等着大自然把它们凝聚,我们就能主动的去创造条件。为什么我们宁可去做一个悲观、被动的人,而不去做一个乐观、主动的人呢??

过了约一个小时,我们全都到齐了不的地。因有两三辆车没有GPS,车主又不认识路,所以才要这么久。我们就座的时候,表演已经开始了十来分钟了。在表演中有米老鼠、七个小矮人和白雪公主、美人鱼......出现了,他们都能在冰上表演得流漓尽至。他们用技术很汗水换取了众多观众的欢呼和目光。在演出的两个小时当中,没有一丝的沉默。真的是快乐时光过得特别快,又是时候说拜拜!在回去唐人街的时候,雨水还没停,就好像为刚下精彩的一幕不停的欢呼着。不到一阵子,我迷迷糊糊的在欢呼声醒过来了。看着那熟悉的店铺和街到,已经到了唐人街了。当我接到了我哥的电话后,我马上去到他那里,帮他把东西拿回家去,准备今晚的节目。

晚上七时许,人都到齐了。我跟叔叔他们一大邦人在我家吃火锅,剎时间我感到了一股温暖和亲切。虽说来到了这里,已经不再相隔半个地球了那么远了,不过还是很少见面。在这里每个人的生活都是那么的繁忙,就算是不到一个小时的路程,一个月也见不到两次。这次大家难得的相聚在一起,真的很好。大家都有说有笑,吃得乐嘻嘻的。最后,当我叫我爸来切蛋糕的时候。我留意到了,在他的嘴角明显的露出了一丝不见已久的微笑。我心里甜滋滋的“爸爸笑了”。在以往,我都没有做过类似的事情。以前在中国的时候,天天都在学校,到了那天才回去吃吃饭。而昨天我用靠自己双手赚来的钱请大家来吃火锅,还买了个蛋糕跟他庆祝生日。我昨天总于看到了爸爸发自心里面的笑了。

这个感恩节,是我过得最温馨、最开心、最自在、最甜的一天。“只要一个笑,世界都美妙”。

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

The Thanksgivings Party

We had a Thanksgiving Party in our school today. I was helping them in order to sare foods during the party. They had a show in gym room until the party start. They showed some kind of dance in there since in that building has difference schools. Every body was had fun when the dancers were dancing hippop. Photographers didn't stay anywhere anytime. I could see the light on everywhere from cameras as fast as they could. Several minutes later, we have to prepare all fo foods. We sharers used glove and apron in order that everyone could eat healthly. We didn't take long time on the party. The party was done before 8:30pm.

Sunday, November 19, 2006

Martha and Me

I just began to read this book from last week, and I only read about 20 pages since I only read at weekend. I found it hook me into it, and tells me to do what I like in my own world. Martha is a dancer who always said she does choose to be a dancer in this book. She never danced in anyone’s world.
Even though Martha was 88 years older then me, I really very agree her mind. She is a dancer who spans 19 century and 20 century, but I am only an ordinary person. Instead of the favor in dance in her world, I love photography. Although Martha and I have different favorite subject, we are have a similar point.
Dance is important in Martha’s life. “Don’t you know when you do something like this, I always know?” Martha’s father put an arm around her. I was confused when I was reading this sentence. I didn’t know how her father knew that. Her father said something very real “There is always some movement that tells me you are deceiving me. You see, no matter what you say, you reveal yourself—you make fists you think I don’t notice, your back gets very straight maybe you shuffle your feet your eyelids drop. Remember, Marta—movement never lies.”
Photography is important in my life. “Make your favor in a hurry, matter part is straight to take your favor of photography” said Ms.Shen who is the author of what I am reading. At that moment I had a lot of feelings, people live in the world is to do what they like in logic, and enjoy their lives. If people can not enjoy something in their lives, it will be hard to live in this world. I enjoyed photography since I like to see the other side of life, see what was beautiful in my life or someone else’s, because I found photos can reflex our life. It makes me know the colors in the world. The importance that photography in my life is like battery to cell phone, it is where the energy from.
Martha and I are having a same point on how to enjoy our life. I hope my wife will be like her, so that we can enjoy in each other.

Monday, November 13, 2006


I didn't write journal in this blog for a long time. Actually I didn't have a lot of work to do, but I felt had a lot of trouble in my mind. I don't know what should I do, what can I do. I felt I was going lazzy since I don't want to do anything. Even thoug I really very don't like to write, I know I have to do because of my family's future and my future. I should start right now and keep working hard as well as I could.
I felt I was so tired in just past few weeks. I don't know what I did in this few weeks.